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"Queer Abby" Advice Column

Straight Talk with Queer Abby: Sex, Dating & Relationship Advice for All Sexualities

Whether your attractions and relationships are same-sex, opposite-sex, both, or unclear, Queer Abby is about helping you make sense of your sexual health, relationship, and intimacy needs.

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Send your question to and you will receive free and confidential advice from Queer Abby.

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