Santa Clara University

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Affairs & Infidelity: Betrayal, Negotiation, Reconciliation and Self-Esteem

CPSY x922

Day Friday, November 5, 2010
Time 1pm-5pm
Room Arts and Sciences Building, Room 102
Credit 0.4 CEUs, 4 CE Hours
Cost $95
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Description


     Do couples ever really recover from infidelity? If so, what exactly do therapists have to offer them? What concepts can make our interventions deeper and longer-lasting? Which couples are unlikely to reconcile regardless of our sincere efforts? This workshop challenges common clinical ideas, covering topics including:


- Why are affairs so common? (Hint: it’s not because all men are pigs)
- The typical belief that the betrayed acquires power as a result of being betrayed
- How much is sex an issue in most affairs? What can be done about desire discrepancies?
- Under what conditions should couples reconcile after an affair?
- What does forgiveness actually mean?
- How can we get couples to reconcile as partners rather than as adversaries?
- “That’s not infidelity, it’s just internet talk!”
- How relationships can thrive when one partner uses pornography
- Drawing and maintaining boundaries around the wounded relationship
- The existential issues confronting both parties when there’s been an affair—and why it’s crucial to address these

     Participants will learn fresh new ways of looking at affairs, fidelity, and sexuality--so that they better evaluate patients, sort out individual and relationship issues, and help people heal from the experiences of powerlessness, grief, rage, and damaged self-esteem that are common on both sides of betrayal.




Instructor

Marty Klein, MFT

Instructor

Dr. Marty Klein, has been an MFT and Sex Therapist for 29 years. The author of 5 books and 150 articles, he has trained over 60,000 physicians, social workers, and therapists across the U.S. and in 12 countries. Marty was recently an invited Master Presenter at the CAMFT annual conference for the 9th year; CAMFT has also honored him for Literary Achievement.

Marty's newest audio training seminar is Intakes & First Sessions: Doing the First Hour So There's a Second Hour. He publishes the blog Sexual Intelligence (www.MartyKlein.com), and sees individuals and couples in his private practice in Palo Alto. A consistently top-rated (and very funny) presenter, this is his 13th workshop for the Center for Professional Development.

 

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