Set Aside Anxietyby Anne and Steve Kaune When our daughter Lizz told us she was planning to study abroad in El Salvador, we were only a little surprised. The program appealed to all that she stood for. But we have known many people who have lived and worked in El Salvador over the years, especially during the Civil War, so my first reaction was, "How about Spain?...or Ireland?" That night, unable to sleep at 3a.m., I checked out the program online and I was convinced it could be a great experience for Lizz. When we visited, we were so happy to see that the program exceeded our expectations. We arrived on election day, met by Hector because the students were all busy as international monitors! From then on everyone we met was gracious, welcoming and beyond friendly. There is no joy like seeing your child happy and loved. Everywhere we went with Lizz she seemed at home and thoroughly welcomed by the people she was with. She kept us busy with trips to Jayaque, her praxis site. There we were welcomed as special guests in the homes of the cooperative members, sharing stories, laughs, and delicious food. (I loved the pupusas!) In the midst of poverty we experienced abundant hospitality and generosity. Despite our almost nonexistent Spanish we were able to communicate with smiles, hugs and Lizz's help. And we learned so much about and from our daughter during our short visit. We loved being there with her and seeing her growth and happiness. We can't begin to describe all she learned there. We were able to participate in the memorial services for Archbishop Romero, and had the honor of visiting his home and the chapel where he was assassinated. We visited the UCA and the memorial garden for the UCA martyrs. We were delighted to attend a spirituality night with the students, and were invited to travel to Guatemala with them during their weekend retreat. What a wonderful group of young people: bright, funny and sensitive to experiencing a foreign culture. I know with them Lizz has made some lifelong friends. Finally, I'd like to thank Kevin and Trena for developing a wonderful academic and communal experience for the students. They are conscientious mentors and great role models. The staff at the Casa, the Salvadoran students who serve as cultural guides, the faculty for the UCA and the people from the praxis sites all make up a family and home away from home. We strongly encourage other parents to try to set aside the initial anxiety you may feel about the program, and if possible to visit your son or daughter. It is an experience you and they won't forget. If anyone would like to contact us you can reach us at: annekaune@yahoo.com. Peace, |
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